K, just wanna sharing. gue punya temen, sebut aja P. dia curcol tentang move on. cerita biasa gimana orang abis putus dari mantan nya terus susah move on. gue ngasih saran ke dia blablablast, yang sebenernya harusnya saran itu buat gue sendiri..
MOVE-ON. easy to say, but so hard to do? eh?
Move on itu cuma masalah mau, sama enggak mau. banyak yang bilang "gue ga bisa moveon". padahal harusnya "gue GAK mau moveon." apa-apa kalo pake niat juga pasti bisa kok, tergantung usaha aja. tapi orang kadang ga mau move on, soalnya mereka masih ngarep bisa balik kayak dulu lagi.
Anger and sadness often come in alternating waves after a breakup. It’s okay to feel both these emotions. It’s not okay to do something destructive to yourself or others, though. Accept your anger or sadness by engaging in activities that let it out in a healthy way. Everyone has methods to help them work through things. Some folks write poetry, others clean out their closets, and still others work out, cook, or talk to friends. Whatever your “safe” outlet is, use it to focus the lingering feelings you have from your break up.
I won't talking about how-to-move-on too much, soalnya setiap orang punya cara yang beda-beda. dan kalaupun gue kasih tau cara gue buat move on, pasti ada orang yang gabisa pake cara gue itu.
tapi gue cuma mau bilang, nanti pasti ada saatnya lo bisa dan sadar kalo lo harus ngelepas semua yang udah lewat. ga mungkin lo terus stuck. so let it flow,guys.
